My heroes are my dear friend Abby, her son and daughter-in-law. But in order to tell you about them I have to tell you how my journey began. I am a Veteran of the first war in Iraq. From 1988-2000 I served in the U.S. Navy and Naval Reserves, and after 8 of those years trying to get advanced when women weren't allowed on ships, I had made no progress. In the time I was on active duty I was blessed with being stationed in Hawaii. I absolutely loved the island, the people and the weather. After that I knew I would retire there one day. Fast Forward to 2007 when our economy started to see a slump. I ended up taking a buyout with severence pay from my job and thinking it was now or never on moving back to Hawaii, I moved. I got a job right away and was loving life. Within the first 2 years, I had been laid off twice, my money was gone and I was barely scraping by working part time. I worked my way from part time to full time to survive. In 2009 we hired a new girl. Abby. She was older than me, actually has children my age. She was always smiling, very upbeat, never mad or in a bad mood and willing to do anything to help another person. Her and I became great friends. She was always there to pick me up when I had a bad day, needed advice or just wanted to vent. In 2010 Ii lost my job and next came the loss of my apartment because the owner decided to move back in. I had no income at all and ended up homeless, living in my truck. I could not find a job. I was denied unemployment. I thought I would die living in my truck. My parents helped as much as possible. But Abby, stepped up, she asked her son to allow me to stay in his home when she came there. She stayed there on her days off, living with her boyfriend on the days she worked. He and his wife agred and basically saved my life. My mom finally paid to get me home and I am so grateful to be alive, but missing my dear friends Abby, Rick and Jamie.
- Oct 11, 2011


